If you are a victim of infidelity, then you are probably asking yourself "My husband makes me feel bad about myself, what should I do now?" It is understandable that you would be devastated and feel very guilty over having been betrayed. However, unless you feel the immediate emotional pain that your infidelity has caused, you may not have a clear understanding as to how you should proceed from here.

Emotional abuse is often referred to as a form of sexual or physical abuse. It is often worse than simple physical abuse in many ways. Emotional abuse can cause a person to feel that they are nothing but a worthless person and worthless to their spouse. They will feel as if their spouse is completely unworthy of their time and attention. This can cause a person to develop feelings of intense self-pity and insecurity, leading them to question their own marriage even more deeply.

Physical abuse can include things like false confinement, severe spanking, and other ways of mistreating your spouse in an attempt to control your thought patterns and behavior. Emotional abuse can cause a person to develop severe depression and feelings of worthlessness. A healthy marriage is vital to both people in it. If you are being emotionally abused by your spouse, then there are several things you can do to save your marriage.

The first thing you should do when you become the victim of this type of abuse is work to rebuild your self-esteem. You must treat your relationship with kindness and respect. If you are able to do that, you will begin to see your spouse as someone who is worthy of all the attention, love, and caring that he has given to you, rather than someone who abuses you by withholding his affection and leaving you feeling unloved and uncared for.

Unfortunately, in many cases, victims of emotional abuse tend to suffer longer than those who experience physical abuse. Victims of the latter types of abuse, particularly the ones who do not receive any form of attention from their abuser, may develop severe self-esteem issues as a result.

They may believe that they are worthless and unable to find a partner due to their relationship with their abuser. If left unchecked, self-esteem issues can grow so severe that victims may begin to purposely sabotage their relationships in an effort to destroy their relationships and lower their self-esteem. If this happens to you, then you need to take steps quickly to address the abuse in your relationship.

Another way that my husband makes me feel bad about myself is by hurting me. Not only is he capable of physically hurting me, but he also tries to psychologically hurt me, so that I will start to believe that he has power over me. This is why some women will repeatedly say "he's just jealous". He just wants to make me feel bad so that I will leave him. It's not his fault that you feel this way about him; it's just his way of trying to control you.

The best way to address your feelings about your husband is to start trusting him again. Let go of all your guilt feelings of pity for him. Start trusting him again because he deserves to have loving feelings, just like you do. If your husband makes you feel bad about yourself because he is treating you badly, then it is OK to step back a little and try to find other feelings to be jealous of instead. Remember, it is OK to feel a bit jealous at times - it's when you feel all those feelings for no reason that you are trying to undermine his ability to love you.

When your husband makes you feel bad about yourself, the first thing he wants to do is take the blame for everything. Try not to listen to him and take all his blame. If he starts complaining about something, just listen and don't take his side. If your husband makes you feel bad about yourself, don't be a victim. Instead, stand up for yourself and be the girl he never wanted - the woman he always wanted but never had the courage to ask!